I was wondering where I would put this thread, in the pub or in the Small Arms section.
Last night is something that I will remember for a long time. It was my first brush with a possibly dangerous scenario in the US. Someone tried to break into our home, here is the full story.
I was working late last night. My wife and daughter had gone off to bed when I head a male voice. I came out into a living room and peeked out of the kitchen window (which has a view outside). I saw a man knocking on the door. I opened the door and the security chain (my first, really stupid nmistake) and asked him what he wanted. I could
tell from his breath and demeanor that he was drunk. He asked me my name. I told him and he kept asking repeatedly. Then he mentioned something about him wanting to help out a waitress friend of his and how we as Indians would not be helping her. This is a sentence he repeated once or twice and then asked me my name again. Then he some rot about my wife.
At that point, his foot was on the doorstep. I pushed him out and shut the door and asked my wife to call 911.
I locked the door without putting in the security chain too. Thankfully my wife noticed it and put it back on.
So now I am on the phone talking to the person who took up the 911 call. and this guy pushes in violently on the door. It is then that I realize that I had not actually managed to lock the door, and it was the flimsy security chain that was keping this guy outside. I pushed back hard against the door and told my wife to fetch a big stick. But he already had his hand inside and was trying to open the security chain. This is where I got really concerned. I was trying to think if I should bash his hand with the stick that my wife brought (really a very large chunk of wood, would have crushed his fingers), when I saw someone from the nieghbouring condo come out and talk to the guy.
By then, I had managed to push out his hand and had locked the door, for real this time. I was still on call with 911 line, when I saw from my kitchen window the guy coming back. From what I could gather, I think he was challenging me to call the police. He was also repeatedly reading out our address (marked outside the door). I was shouting at him to go away.
All this while I was on the phone with 911 so I think this conversation may have been recorded. After some time this person went away and the police arrive a few minutes later. The officer told me that this was a drunk guy who also lived in the condo complex. He had had a tiff with his wife and a drink too many which led him to this state. He took statements from us and later told us that the guy was belliegrent enough to get arrested for drunken behaviour and tresspasssing. He kept assuring us that this guy was really not dangerous, just a belligerant drunk.
After all of this, I was left wondering about the course of actions that I had undertaken, opening the door to a stranger:madder:, not locking the door properly even after an altercation:madder:, not striking back with force even during a break in attempt.
The lessons from the first two, I hope, would be ingrained in the form of better security practices henceforth, but what about the last one?
While that guy was forcing his way in and was trying to open the security chain from the outside I could have stabbed his hand with a kitchen knife or broken it with my heavy stick. My course of action as it happened was to try and just get the guy out without applying any painful force. How wise was that?
In retrospect, this course of action was probably the best. Nothing happened to us, and the guy would probably get enough of a slap on the wrist to be careful going forwards. But what if this guy was a murderous brute bent on doing us harm? Then my mistakes may well have been deadly. I now need to reconsider these. I hope I never have to go through this agian, but I sure as hell want to prepare myself for it. We are going to check out some non-lethal deterrance like pepper spray and the like as well as strenghthen our home with stronger locks etc.
On the bright side, this may well be my last chance to get my wife into guns and my excuse to actually buy one.
Last night is something that I will remember for a long time. It was my first brush with a possibly dangerous scenario in the US. Someone tried to break into our home, here is the full story.
I was working late last night. My wife and daughter had gone off to bed when I head a male voice. I came out into a living room and peeked out of the kitchen window (which has a view outside). I saw a man knocking on the door. I opened the door and the security chain (my first, really stupid nmistake) and asked him what he wanted. I could
tell from his breath and demeanor that he was drunk. He asked me my name. I told him and he kept asking repeatedly. Then he mentioned something about him wanting to help out a waitress friend of his and how we as Indians would not be helping her. This is a sentence he repeated once or twice and then asked me my name again. Then he some rot about my wife.
At that point, his foot was on the doorstep. I pushed him out and shut the door and asked my wife to call 911.
I locked the door without putting in the security chain too. Thankfully my wife noticed it and put it back on.
So now I am on the phone talking to the person who took up the 911 call. and this guy pushes in violently on the door. It is then that I realize that I had not actually managed to lock the door, and it was the flimsy security chain that was keping this guy outside. I pushed back hard against the door and told my wife to fetch a big stick. But he already had his hand inside and was trying to open the security chain. This is where I got really concerned. I was trying to think if I should bash his hand with the stick that my wife brought (really a very large chunk of wood, would have crushed his fingers), when I saw someone from the nieghbouring condo come out and talk to the guy.
By then, I had managed to push out his hand and had locked the door, for real this time. I was still on call with 911 line, when I saw from my kitchen window the guy coming back. From what I could gather, I think he was challenging me to call the police. He was also repeatedly reading out our address (marked outside the door). I was shouting at him to go away.
All this while I was on the phone with 911 so I think this conversation may have been recorded. After some time this person went away and the police arrive a few minutes later. The officer told me that this was a drunk guy who also lived in the condo complex. He had had a tiff with his wife and a drink too many which led him to this state. He took statements from us and later told us that the guy was belliegrent enough to get arrested for drunken behaviour and tresspasssing. He kept assuring us that this guy was really not dangerous, just a belligerant drunk.
After all of this, I was left wondering about the course of actions that I had undertaken, opening the door to a stranger:madder:, not locking the door properly even after an altercation:madder:, not striking back with force even during a break in attempt.
The lessons from the first two, I hope, would be ingrained in the form of better security practices henceforth, but what about the last one?
While that guy was forcing his way in and was trying to open the security chain from the outside I could have stabbed his hand with a kitchen knife or broken it with my heavy stick. My course of action as it happened was to try and just get the guy out without applying any painful force. How wise was that?
In retrospect, this course of action was probably the best. Nothing happened to us, and the guy would probably get enough of a slap on the wrist to be careful going forwards. But what if this guy was a murderous brute bent on doing us harm? Then my mistakes may well have been deadly. I now need to reconsider these. I hope I never have to go through this agian, but I sure as hell want to prepare myself for it. We are going to check out some non-lethal deterrance like pepper spray and the like as well as strenghthen our home with stronger locks etc.
On the bright side, this may well be my last chance to get my wife into guns and my excuse to actually buy one.
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