Good lord... I had no idea that you are living in such a situation.. I have seen the consequences of an addiction by my own eyes and I truly hope that youŽll find the way to get your children out of that abyss before it drags them down to the same hell. Your wife will choose what she thinks is the most important thing in her life, but the children have no choice.. you cannot do much for your wife, but you can do a lot for your children. Stay strong and keep the faith!